We don't see ourselves

Irony of ironies.

The most resentful person I know includes, at the bottom of all his e-mails, the following caption:

"Break the rules, smile always, forgive quickly, kiss slowly and laugh without control."

This goes to prove that we don't indeed see ourselves clearly, much of the time. I wonder what my inconsistencies are. Perhaps the same as his? If I forgave quickly, this defect of his might not be so present in my mind.